Sometimes, we speak before we think. We jump to conclusions, interrupt, or finish someone else’s sentence, thinking we’re helping, but really, we’re just missing the point.
If you are full of energy and ideas, but talk more than you listen. Yes, you have good intentions, but in that eagerness, remember that listening is more than waiting for your turn to speak.
Listening is a quiet superpower. It allows us to understand, to empathise, and to build stronger relationships.
The Bible reminds us of this simple truth in James 1:19 (NIV):
“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
Listening first makes us wiser.
The power of listening isn’t just spiritual; it’s practical. When we pause, we give others the space to share fully. We learn more about their perspective, their struggles, and their dreams. And often, in that silence, God speaks to us, too.
So, How Can We Cultivate the Art of Listening?
- Instead of jumping in, take a breath, pause and consider what’s being said before you respond.
- Show that you care about understanding by asking the right questions.
- Avoid interrupting; let people finish their thoughts fully, and resist the urge to correct or finish their sentences.
- Repeat what you have heard in your own words to show understanding.
- It’s not going to be easy; that is why we need to pray to God for Patience.
Listening transforms conversations into connection. It turns arguments into understanding and judgment into empathy. It’s a practice that cultivates humility, respect, and love.
And by listening, you can avoid the temptation of spilling the tea.
So today, let’s pray together:
“Lord, help me to listen more. Help me hear before I speak, understand before I judge, and love through every conversation.”
PUT INTO CONSIDERATION: The next time you feel the urge to talk over someone, remember that the quietest moments often speak the loudest.
Listening isn’t just hearing; it’s giving life to someone else’s words, and opening your heart to God’s guidance in every interaction.
